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Hi Melanie,
Please disregard if this does not resonate, as I am only practising :
I sense that you are a very kind and calm person.
I feel that with Rolo there occurred over time like a swap of role or better said the leadership scale tipped out of balance.
He arrived as an insecure dog and had a lot to learn in his new environment where things were so different from what he knew. From his behaviour now you can tell that it often used to be a ‘scramble’ for certain things (toys, food), a scramble where he probably often did not come first.
Rolo has overcome his past life experience and is getting his confidence back. He is finally the dog he always wanted to be – confident, courageous and determined. He was able to learn that in your safe environment and through your understanding and kindness. You acted as strong proctectors and providers of safety and food etc. for him. This way, over time, his confidence was able to flourish.
He is a dog with lots of energy. It is as if he was saying « if you do not like what I am doing, give me a different job ».
He likes to use his mouth as a tool.He needs to be given a job, some training, it will involve quite some of your time. Some training with other dogs, to learn to listen to what is wanted and where he learns to accept that YOU are the leader. He will love you all the more for your crystal clear instructions (he reads your vibration and knows whether your NO is a determined NO or a wavering NO) and your confident leadership.
Rolo helps you this way to become more of a stronger leader yourself who dares to claim the things YOU want in life.
If Rolo did not feel safe with you, he would not act slightly aggressive at times, living with you he was able to train himself back into confidence which is great. But he is overstepping a bit. And now you claim back YOUR leadership to tip the scale back into balance. And things will balance out.
Many blessings,
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Hi Gabriela,
That makes so much sense to us. Thank you.
I was literally just talking to my husband about him before I read your message.
Christmas and birthdays were always so exciting for Daisy and she loved to open presents. This was new to Rolo when he arrived, and whereas Daisy understood that the paper meant presents and excitement, Rolo probabaly just saw that ripping paper was fun. At Christmas he would take his presents to his cage and guard them, but we let him keep them because they were his. I can therefore see our part in it.
This year, as the balance has tipped we are fully expecting him to try to take anything he wants from under the tree, so we are already thinking of ways to counteract that. As I’m writing I realise a conversation with him is needed.
I opened your message straight after having this conversation and your words make so much sense.
Thank you so much for connecting with him and sharing.
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