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Platinum Masterclass March 2019 will explore deeper into handling animal behavior problems using my best behavior modification techniques. We will expand upon the February masterclass of techniques working with behavior, training and performance issues.
These advanced techniques work for my clients and their animals:
– struggling with dogs that jump up on people, aggression, chasing cars, dragging their people down the street on the leash, or worse….
– kitties who are scratching or getting into things they shouldn’t, can’t get along with their family mates, act out aggressively with love bites (or not so loving bites!), who don’t use the litter box, who spray or mark territory, or worse….
– horses who bite, kick, buck, act skittish, run over their people, run away like a freight train, or worse…
We listened to you that you wanted to know more about how to help animals when they are behaving badly.
When we do this right, pets and people can take a big breath of relief, feel more confident and clear about what’s needed and wanted, and their relationships can get back on track for harmony and alignment.
Mastering these unique intuitive skill is important because when you communicate with an animal and they need to tell you why they are behaving badly, then you’ll know exactly what to do to help them do better.
This level of advanced Masterclass training isn’t available anywhere else. You’ll learn how to be of service in these important situations to help them feel better.
Add you golden nuggets and comment on your findings doing the practices below.
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In addition to teaching you more of my techniques, I would like to do some group exercises in this month’s Masterclass on solving behavior problems with pets.
Do you have a pet that’s misbehaving that you’d like help with? We will work with them in the masterclass together, so you can experience how this works.
Let me know!!
Thanks!
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Yes! Do you want to talk to Izzy about why she is afraid of KoKo and doesn’t want to ever come on the bed with me anymore? And her peeing on the pad in front of the litter box (she especially does it when there is other’s poop in it) – I have been telling her that I cannot clean the box when I am sleeping – she is a litterbox clean freak and I know this and am forever diligent in keeping the 3 boxes clean, clean. What a little nerd! KoKo seems to be better about not chasing her, as much, but she remains fearful and angry still that KoKo is living with us. Jeez it’s been 16months. Anyway, if you want to talk to Izzy I would love it! Hugs, Pam
Pam, Pammie, Pammie Jean, Pamela.... you can call me any of these names.
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My Beagle, Pascal, started chasing the cats away from their food dishes in order to eat all available food himself. That goes for all food served, first chicken, then canned food, then dry food. He is already mildly overweight and should be ok with his own big bowl. When I stay close, watching, he is ok, but as soon as I don’t keep reminding him, he goes binge eating whatever he can find. Partly, he is copying Genie, my other dog, but the difference is, she barks at the cats for fun (not good either), protecting her own food, while he does it to get the additional food.
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I would love insight into a behavioral issue between my cat Sebastian (female) and Ezla (male). She gets very upset/dominate with him regarding the food, the bed, me, everything really. However, she has her reasons from the past. When he first entered the scene about 6 years ago, he was feral and chased her etc. there was a peaceful period for quite some time. It is primarily her emotional/ mental landscape/past trauma that I feel concern for. I will edit this with more details tomorrow. Thank you 😊
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RE Sebastian/Ezla: To clarify, Sebastian and Ezla (along with Mama Kitty who is the cat in charge ultimately 😉 all sleep on my bed, all get there fair share of food, and all like to walk around outside with me during warmer months. Nevertheless, Sebastian and Ezla are at odds. Mama Kitty is clear cut and unemotional about her boundaries and has no issues with Ezla. Sebastian is understandably strong in her boundaries with Ezla. However, the aggressive and emotionally afflicted aspect of her personality in regards to Ezla are deep and cause turmoil and extra conflict. I have been communicating and deeply listening with all three about this issue. At this point, I appreciate extra support in regards to what I am already communicating with them, as well as, additional insight. Primarily, I am expressing to Ezla with listening, images, feelings, and talking, that I love our long walks together and would love for mama kitty and Sebastian to join us more without fear of your playful but aggressive like chasing and tackling and expressed to him how this makes them feel. And I show the end result of everyone getting their running and playing in, nothing held back, simply without him (Ezla) chasing them directly. Instead enjoy their mutual running and climbing trees, side by side etc, and how this will shift the home environment in a harmonious way, so he doesn’t feel like he’s walking on eggshells and Sebastian can relax more and give him more freedom to exist. I am interested to see how this plays out once it is warmer here and the girls go out and about more. I feel confident that change is occurring and really look forward to the call tomorrow and how this extra deep listening and communion with them will further help shift this issue.
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Add Lily-Grace’s peeing (as well as often pooing) outside the box to the litter box problems above. She’s become even worse than Julie-Belle in the bathroom.
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How do worst-case best-case scenarios work with litter box problems? I can’t threaten to turn them outside or take them to the shelter: they wouldn’t believe the latter, and they may opt for the former now that it’s spring. Their body-minds already enjoy best-case: the human will clean up; that’s her job.
So how do I reach their spirit level? Will their spirits admonish them to always use the boxes? And also to use any floor for hairballs and puke rather than the bed?
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Roxy is acting like a bully chasing Missy, pinning her down, and has her screaming. They are litter mates and have always been together. He is much larger and has always been “all boy” picking on her but it seems to be getting worse.
One night recently she was sleeping in his place on my bed when he jumped up on the bed. I was waked up by him attacking her. They used to sleep with her at my head and him at my feet. Now he rarely comes to bed and she has started sleeping at my feet.
She does not seem to be enjoying play and I sometimes have to rescue her. I used a water bottle spray the other day to stop him without getting hurt myself.
They are the reincarnation of my previous cats who were so close they slept in a ball. None of that this incarnation. They have said they are soul mates and travel together but they are not acting like that now. I never see them sleeping together or grooming each other as they did last lifetime.
What is his problem? Is it because they planned to be look alike girls again and his kitten body died at 4 weeks and he took on a different body, a little boy body?
I attached a picture of them in their previous incarnations. Nothing loving like this between them this time.
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Update Thursday night. Roxy was grooming Missy! He was in my lap and she jumped into my arms above him. He did her toilette and kept looking up with this strange expression that was if he smelled something really bad and then went back at it. He has not chased her in a few days. Behavior much improved.
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Tina is really jealous and acting out. She refused to be led to the turnout stopping 4 times and refused to go forward so I put her back in the stall where she paced and threw a fit. She pins her ears and bares her teeth at me.
She is jealous that Lucy is the FAT and worries the baby will get all the attention. Reassurance helps for a couple days then she’s back to acting out. I don’t know what else to do for her. -
Hi everyone
I have another case:
Little Sophie is attacking me, grabbing my arm, scratching and biting. This is not aggression, just play. But it hurts. She should understand that I am not another cat. Sometimes she co e to cuddle, but as soon as I intend to stroke her, she gets into biting mode.
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Tina: 3/17/19
I tried to connect with Tina in the wee hours of the morning and fell asleep. When I finally connected to her this morning, I apologized for falling asleep and told her that she helped me to relax in the night because she has such a calming influence on me! I expressed my gratitude for her help. Then I said so what’s going on?
She told me that she doesn’t know how this is all going to work out. Lucy is so busy right now with “others.” She doesn’t know where she fits in the herd anymore. She is afraid with one more everyone will forget her. How come Katey is leading? She just feels anxious. She hopes Alicia could do something special with just her and nobody else.
I said I’m feeling your upset and I get it. I’d feel this way too. I’ll let Alicia know your thoughts and that you would like some alone time with her. Then I said would you like to visit God’s healing vault to see if the angels might have something soothing for you?
She thought that was a wonderful idea! She said let’s fly there! Jump on!!!
I said hmmmmmmm… I have only been on a trail horse once in my life, I’m not sure I can fly through the skies on one….. “Come ON!!! It’s magic, you will stick!”OK! Oh my!
And off we flew through the dark starry night with a sliver of a moon! Woohoo! I’m thinking she’s right there’s no way I’m falling off of here! Wow!!! Whew! Then we arrived and I was not quite grounded…And she(Tina) says: “Calm down. We are here. Let’s do this!”
Meanwhile I’m doing my best to be calm..(ha ha)We go up to the guardian angels at the door and explain what’s going on and they say of course there is something just for you Tina. We walk in and are immediately surrounded by such deep LOVE. Whenever you are feeling anxious, tap into this through Alecia. She is connected to our LOVE and also now you are. In fact you don’t need her to tap in…just think of us anytime, anywhere and you will feel accepted and embraced in our LOVE.
Then they brought out a bowl of beautifully colored(shimmering, undescribable) jello with whipped cream on top. This is vegetarian (not made from gelatin) and it will soothe your anxiety and fears. She ate it with full attention and seemed so much calmer afterward.Then it was time to go. Again she said: “Jump ON!”
I jumped on and it was daylight now and we soared through fluffy clouds and around rainbows and floated gently back to physical.When I dismounted I said: Can you remember this love? Just think of jello and you will remember if you forget. This is why Alecia can LOVE all of you in the ways that are needed. The angels told you she is connected and now you are too.
She whinnied a happy sound!She might forget this so you could say when I give you a carrot, you can remember the jello…the universal love…
Let me know how it goes…❤️🥕
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Tina is doing well and has bonded more to Katey and metallic. She had a great adventure yesterday as one of them opened the pasture gate and the 3 horses went running down the road and went almost 2 miles before I cut them off with the truck and caught Metallic then the rest followed him as I led him back home. I’m grateful that nobody was hurt during the escape. Tina is helping Katey be the leader so she has a new role in the herd. All is well.
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Barb G And Alecia: Oh My! What a fabulous adventure, Barb!! Brought tears to my eyes, honestly. Brilliant and well done, all the way around.
Alecia, thank you for sharing how things are going now with your fabulous herd, that’s good news. AND, a big whew of relief to know their adventure ended safely too.
BIG hugs and much love,
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Thank you Val. Barb’s adventure with Tina brought tears to my eyes also. I think the story could be a children’s book because children often have jealousy when a new sibling comes. I know that I did. Tina and Katey are very close now. I really have Barb to thank for helping me solve some complicated issues.
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